Love....the feeling or the person...?

Veni , Vedi ,Vinci.....Yes this is exactly what I would like to write while describing my feelings for him...He came .He saw and he conquered.Conquered my heart beholding its dignity. Being grown up and standing at this juncture of life I really wonder whether we love.. a person or the feeling,the reciprocation what we get from someone,which is more important ??what leaves a deep impression in our heart ....what do we really love ..the presence of the person or the feeling that is being carried out all the way because of the behavioural characteristics of the individual...
I strongly believe that we tend to remember anything which leaves a deep mark ,an ever lasting impression on our mind .It is not about good or bad,significant or insignificant but the uniqueness of the event that helps us in memorising the event /person even without a conscious effort.And among all these unique experiences some are loved because they bring old lost smiles on our face .Even though that memory would be an encryption of the past still we tend to be happy remembering of the uniqueness of the moment..
You must be wondering why am I trying to define what exactly memory is all about and also what love is ...When we are in love ..do we love the person only and is really love blind where we do not expect anything from the other side.....the mere presence of the person in our life justifies all that he does for us and even all that he does not......OR is love about a sense of reciprocation where you feel the person you love ,understands you and knows how you feel.....
I know this sounds pretty monotonous but let me ask few questions here ...
When you like the person ...he steps in and your world starts smiling you goof up with joy and some unseen unfelt happiness whirls your world so you feel you are in love ...but I really wonder what do you love in the whole process....the person stepping in...or the feeling that charges your mind ....
I may not make sense to many but think over it ...Which category do you fall into.......Do you like him for his lovely gestures and accent for you or would you still love him if at some point he is devoid of those gestures,attention and admirations for you which filled your world when it all started.....
Some fall in love with that feeling while others falll in love with the person but all call it love without realising how much is the worth of what....and life goes on accordingly and changes its face ...you know Alice has to come out of wonderland and face reality....someday or the other.....

weather changes ...so does life

Was once wondering what changes fast...the weather or life...
Weather and life goes hand in hand if viewed closely...
There is always a sunny day after a rainy day in both the cases...
Unreliable ,devation from the expected and a constant change is what is true for them .
Causes might be many and effects even nummerous but they stick on to their behaviour.
Nothing can bring about a stagnancy and I really wonder despite of the reluctancy to the change attribut ein both would we really be happy if it remains the same all the time...
Let me know if you have something to add here...